luckier than many Chinese(n indian)immigrant peers

• grandparents, kids, .. all healthy
• my parents have great medical benefits and pension
• beautiful wife who is also hardworking and frugal/thrifty
• 2 beautiful, healthy kids
• Aunt Genn is kind and great resource
• my kids can speak Chinese
• Beijing home
• Singapore as a fall-back option
• Singapore as a retirement option
• convenient, affordable lifestyle back in Singapore
• Singapore is better than U.S. for the needy families, the disadvantaged
• ...