- I could and I can control my anger and sense of frustration. These are common problems affecting everyone.
- I can handle setbacks in relationship with in-laws, job change, investment loss, health condition, ...
- I am a survivor. Life is not easy. Life is often a struggle ... for survival. I'm experienced in the struggle.
- I'm also a risk taker. I handled the ensuing setbacks ...
- My primary laptop (Satellite) is giving me frequent browser crashes but I didn't give up and throw it out. I work with various solutions.
- My bathroom renovation was seriously delayed, and the contractor couldn't give refund. I was deeply frustrated but I didn't give up. I devised plans.
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Failures, setbacks can make us stronger.
Those tough times --
* GS team members are too strong, but I worked my way up to their level.
* after GS chat in mid 2009. I went to Kansas city.
* after GS review end of 2009 -- i remained calm and focused.
* i wanted to quit US and return to SG and stay home looking for job, with baby boy ..., but I didn't do that. Instead I kept working...
* remote job search for SG, with no response -- I kept working the recruiters by phone.
* after meimei birth, i studied 30/40 hours a week, and had conflicts with in-laws -- I was able to focus on my studies.
